Solution for MySQL which doesn't have concepts of partition KEEP, DENSE_RANK. Works for other SQL DBs too.
select userid,
my_date,
...
from
(
select @sno:= case when @pid<>userid then 0
else @sno+1
end as serialnumber,
@pid:=userid,
my_Date,
...
from users order by userid, my_date
) a
where a.serialnumber=0
Reference: http://benincampus.blogspot.com/2013/08/select-rows-which-have-maxmin-value-in.html