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Oct 13, 2020 at 17:04 comment added emory @BobBrown I would hope that OP has a much, much better relation with his supervisor than I with you and asking would be unnecessary.
Oct 13, 2020 at 0:09 comment added Robbie Goodwin Of course you should, from both common courtesy and professional ethics.
Oct 12, 2020 at 18:52 comment added Bob Brown @emory Oh, you can absolutely use my name without permission. The question, however, was "should I?" not "can I?" If, to follow your hypothetical, you were to do so, I'd say, "I've never heard of this guy. Someone who will fabricate a reference may have other bad habits." So, if we don't know each other, you should not give my name as a reference. To be at least relatively certain of a good reference, you should ask in advance.
Oct 12, 2020 at 17:17 comment added emory I do not need permission to list @BobBrown as a professional reference. However, to do so would be unwise because Bob Brown does not know me professionally and so honest replies would be "I don't know this guy.", "I can not recommend this guy.", etc. Why would I do that when there are people who do know me and will say nice things about me? How do I know they will say nice things about me? because I asked them. Even though "I don't know this guy" is not technically a bad reference, most people would infer a bad reference.
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Oct 10, 2020 at 21:25 comment added Bob Brown @wimi OK, I concede that citing another's published works doesn't need permission. I'd argue that citing a personal communication does, however. I can't edit my comment, so how about this: You need permission for anything that implies an obligation, however small, or reveals information not already public.
Oct 10, 2020 at 17:51 comment added JeffE Your supervisor has a moral duty to provide a reference for you — No, your supervisor has a moral duty to help you. If they believe that they cannot write you a helpful letter, they have a moral duty not to provide a letter.
Oct 10, 2020 at 17:26 comment added wimi @BobBrown that is too strong a statement. For example, one normally does not ask each (or any) author of a paper before citing the paper.
Oct 10, 2020 at 17:16 comment added anon Your supervisor has a moral duty to provide a reference for you, but it's still polite to ask. Not least because it's usually best to check whether they'll give you a good one.
Oct 10, 2020 at 16:21 comment added Bob Brown @nanoman Nope, not even to nominate someone for a prize. I am reminded of David Bowie declining a CBE and Marlon Brando boycotting the Academy Awards. And then there's this one: academia.stackexchange.com/q/103150/16183
Oct 10, 2020 at 13:38 comment added Tom Yes absolutely, no-one likes getting a reference request out of the blue. I actually first learned this at school when I put my personal tutor's name down as a reference for work experience or something like that and he told me that you always need to ask permission first before putting them down as a reference.
Oct 10, 2020 at 13:24 answer added Adam J timeline score: 1
Oct 10, 2020 at 12:22 comment added Captain Emacs @nanoman The person that wishes the reference should not name a referee without their consent. This is quite different from a nomination.
Oct 10, 2020 at 9:34 answer added PLL timeline score: 43
Oct 10, 2020 at 9:00 history tweeted twitter.com/StackAcademia/status/1314853208330821634
Oct 10, 2020 at 8:17 comment added nanoman @BobBrown Not even to nominate them for a prize? I think what you mean is: Don't use their name in a way that implies they know or agree to something that they don't. This requires understanding which uses of someone's name imply such things. There are many that don't and are fine, like citing someone's work.
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Oct 10, 2020 at 1:03 comment added paul garrett Echoing everyone else's comments... :) For that matter, if you do not ask/request in advance, you may be unpleasantly surprised that someone's perception of you is not as positive as you might have thought. So you should give people a chance to not be a reference, by asking something like "would you be willing to give me a helpful_/_positive_<whatever> reference [letter]?" Not just _a letter/reference, but a helpful one. Some letter writers do not realize they should simply refuse... to inadvertently, thoughtlessly condemn the applicant.
Oct 10, 2020 at 0:45 comment added Bob Brown Never, ever, use another's name for anything without asking first.
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Oct 9, 2020 at 23:44 comment added Buffy Yes, let them know and probably apologize for not asking first. I doubt there will be any problem.
Oct 9, 2020 at 23:37 answer added gnometorule timeline score: 64
Oct 9, 2020 at 23:30 comment added Minions Thanks @gnometorule .. I think your answer is reasonable.
Oct 9, 2020 at 23:00 comment added gnometorule You should ask anyone who you intend to serve as your reference if they are ok with it, before doing so. It’s not an academic thing especially; same in other situations.
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Oct 9, 2020 at 22:53 comment added Mark Why the downvote(s)?
Oct 9, 2020 at 22:37 history asked Minions CC BY-SA 4.0