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    \$\begingroup\$ @Chronocidal I disagree with this answer. It doesn’t solve the problem, which is that almost all of the group considers it a personality trait, L doesn’t, and we have problems with this. \$\endgroup\$ Commented Dec 11, 2020 at 18:30
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    \$\begingroup\$ Please reframe this from presenting itself as fact, to being an explanation of perspective (which you are assuming is what Lemon is coming from) and then use that advice how to resolve the dispute. Also, it would probably be beneficial to reformulate some of this to be guidance for Lemon, say the part about "So, how does that make you behave?". From my reading of the question they didn't frame it like this, which would likely have gone a long way to not make it an arguement. \$\endgroup\$ Commented Dec 12, 2020 at 14:35
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    \$\begingroup\$ @KorvinStarmast Assuming I've understood you correctly, that's why I would like this answer to teach and to make their assumptions about the other side clearly marked as such (and ideally give guidance on how to test those assumptions). \$\endgroup\$ Commented Dec 12, 2020 at 16:47