Set the option showcmd (:h 'sc'), and you will never ever need to type anything to know how many lines are selected -- at first, as I forget that I've set this option, I didn't understand the point of your question. ^^'
Otherwise, if you want to obtain that number programmatically, it's simply:
:echo line("'>") - line("'<") + 1
From within a range-function, it can also be obtainobtained by a:lastline-a:firstline+1. (:h function-range-example)