“I Lost My Virginity To Her Mom When I Was 15”: Married People Are Revealing The WILD Secrets They Will Never, Ever, Ever, Ever Tell Their Spouses, And I Literally Can’t Believe That Some Of These Are Real

We recently asked you, our BuzzFeed Community, to share a secret that you intend on keeping from your spouse forever, and ever, and ever, and...let's just say some of you definitely got very honest with us! Here are some of the responses:

Note: Responses have been edited for length/clarity.

If you are concerned that a child is experiencing or may be in danger of abuse, you can call or text the National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-422-4453 (4.A.CHILD); service can be provided in over 140 languages.

1. "I donated my sperm to sperm banks in college and later on to individual women via a donor website. I am the father of at least 160 kids, and my wife and two kids are oblivious."

—Anonymous, 47, Male, Iowa

2. "When we were younger, my husband and his father had a strained relationship. Often, his dad would stop talking to him for imagined slights. Holidays would pass without his father reaching out, which always made my husband really sad and cast a pall over the day."

"When his 30th birthday was coming up, he was already anticipating that he wouldn't hear from his dad and was bummed. So, I emailed his dad a couple of weeks before with a very chipper message saying that I was trying to get a whole bunch of cards sent to my husband as a surprise for his birthday and was sending out emails to everyone I knew. (I wasn't.)"

"The generic card my husband got from his dad that year was his favorite thing. He literally glowed when he saw the envelope, and their relationship thawed after that. He felt so loved. I will never tell him I sent that email."

—Anonymous

3. "My wife and I were high school sweethearts. We got married at 21 and now have four adult children. We promised to save ourselves for marriage. What my wife doesn't know is that I lost my virginity to her mom when I was 15."

"A year later, I had sex with one of the adult counselors on a Bible retreat. She ended up getting pregnant and was excommunicated from our church. I found out a year later, when I returned to the retreat, that it was my child. My oldest child is somewhere out there."

—Anonymous, 49 Male, Utah

4. "I've been married for a very long time. Although our sex life was, and is, great, I have to masturbate every day to distract myself from thinking about sex. My wife has no idea I do this, and I will never tell her!"

—Anonymous

5. "About a month after my best friend's wedding, I went to a concert with my best friend, her husband, and another friend. Afterward, we went to a bar, and the other friend was being really creepy. We went back to the rooms after, and I didn't feel comfortable sharing a room with the other friend. I texted my best friend, and she just told me to bunk with her and her husband."

"Her husband had passed out by that point, but in the middle of the night, I woke up to hands on me. Her husband had rolled over and was feeling me up. I figured he would pass out again, but I was also still drunk, and it was turning me on. He didn't pass out again."

"Right before the big 'moment,' I had to whisper that it was me, and not his wife, but I told him not to stop. We never spoke a word of it ever again. Years later, they've invited me to join them in bed on occasion, but only he and I know how it started."

—Anonymous

6. "When my husband wants a kiss, he puckers up his lips so tight that it looks like a butthole. I love him so much that I'll never tell him, because it'll make him self-conscious. I just try not to think of buttholes when I kiss him."

—Anonymous

7. "I don't actually love my girlfriend, but she loves me so, so, so much."

—Anonymous, 13, Massachusetts

8. "I have an employee. He asked me to hire his wife. She's 29. I'm 62. Our conversations became extremely sexual. We started sharing nudes, then stripping and masturbating together in private. She filed for divorce. The last day we stripped together, I fingered her, and she stroked my penis. I'm still not over it, but my wife nor anyone else will ever know."

—clumsydaisy444

9. "I said that I was a big fan of a show he watched, and now he talks on about it for hours. The thing is, I dislike the show a lot. I watch it from time to time, only so our conversations aren't one-sided."

—Anonymous, 30, Genderfluid, Canada

10. "Haven't told my husband that our daughter is no longer paying our full mortgage."

—Anonymous, 58, Female, Washington

11. "I've developed feelings for my partner's friend. We've been friends since college and have connected on a deeper level. I can't shake these feelings and will never let either of them know."

—Anonymous

12. "In 1989, I worked with a wonderful woman. We became friends, then so much more. We had a physical affair. She could not leave her husband, but I left my wife. We developed a deep love for each other and stayed in contact, even though I moved to another state. The last time we were in contact was 2014. I still look up her name from time to time. She's doing well. She has kids and grandkids, as do I. She'll be 70 this year."

"There's not a day that goes by that I don't think of her. But I won't contact her. It would be quite dangerous for us both. I know her love for me is just as durable as mine for her, but I can't. I've been married for 26 years now, and I'm quite happy. I'll never tell my wife about my deep love for the other, as it would destroy her, but every day I wonder what might have been. Not a life wasted, but I still wonder..."

—Anonymous, 74, Male, Florida

13. "He believes that my favorite Van Halen song is 'Ain't Talkin' Bout Love' (because I lied to his face and told him it was). It's not. My favorite Van Halen song is 'Runaround.' Van Halen is his favorite band, and he loves Diamond Dave. I don't know if he could ever forgive me for loving a Sammy Hagar song more than a David Lee Roth song. We're 14 years in. I'm never telling him."

—Anonymous

And, finally:

14. "This was in 1997. My girlfriend of 12 years at the time (she's now my ex) had a twin sister. The twin sister tricked me into thinking she was my girlfriend, and I impregnated her. After I found out, I broke up with my girlfriend, claiming it was burnout and that I didn't love her anymore. I cut both of them off and moved from Vancouver to Oslo."

—Anonymous, 42, Male, Canada

If you are concerned that a child is experiencing or may be in danger of abuse, you can call or text the National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-422-4453 (4.A.CHILD); service can be provided in over 140 languages.