More Than My Labs: What I’m Carrying into the New Year
In December, I made a choice to slow down. Not as an afterthought. Not as an apology. But as an act of protest.

From nonprofit founder to confident fashionista, LáDeia Joyce is the modern-day activist we all need to know. Through her online presence, LáDeia brings truth and light to miseducation about HIV and its stigma in the Black community, while centering cisgender Black women. She's living out loud with an HIV diagnosis while using the power of storytelling and transparency to embolden women from all walks of life to do the same. She’s also a proud member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority. Her formal education includes music industry business, communications, and marketing. She’s the spicy combination of Memphis faith, Atlanta flair, and Brooklyn fire. Learn more about LáDeia at www.LaDeiaJoyce.com.
In December, I made a choice to slow down. Not as an afterthought. Not as an apology. But as an act of protest.
t’s the end of the year, and everyone’s telling us to rest.To slow down. Reflect. Be grateful. But how do you rest when the world won’t stop coming for you?
I’ve had more speculums in my body than lovers. More blood drawn by gloved hands than hands that held me.That’s the cost of living with chronic illness and being a Black woman who insists on staying alive.
Nine years ago, I got tested for HIV. There was no dramatic movie moment. No ominous music. Just a quiet room… and a truth that would reshape how I saw myself, my body, and the world around me.
I didn’t know a person could do everything “right” and still get HIV.
Pop culture, an evolving force affecting every facet of our lives, wields substantial influence over societal norms, attitudes, and perspectives. Within the intricate tapestry of cultural dynamics, portrayal of HIV in media shapes public consciousness, particularly in the Black community.