Examples of replacement behaviors for hitting, aggression, and verbal outbursts. Learn how to identify triggers, teach coping skills, and create better IEP behavior plans.
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Lisa Lightner is an Award-Winning Special Education Advocate and Blogger who resides in southeastern Pennsylvania. She holds and has held numerous Director positions on boards for education and disability-related organizations. She is currently on the Parent Advisory Committee for Education Voters PA and Devereux Advanced Behavioral Health Family Advisory Board. Learn more about Lisa’s work at ADayInOurShoes.com UPDATE: Book coming Fall 2025, here: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Lisa-Lightner/author/B0F2VFSDQ4?ccs_id=3f1b4335-2a0a-4bc3-9eb4-52ddac971d44
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When a teen struggles socially, it’s rarely about motivation or personality. It’s almost always about missing skills, lagging skills, or skills that haven’t been generalized across environments.
Once you identify the real gap—whether it’s perspective-taking, flexibility, emotional regulation, or that strong sense of justice—you can actually teach it.
And when it can be taught, it can be written into an IEP and supported at school, not just left for parents to figure out on their own.Lisa Lightnerflipped into special needs parenting- Lisa Lightnerflipped into Special Education in the News


















