[chore] Update and unify default config options

[nmn]

What changed / motivation ?

Updating our default config options to streamline debug and dev options.

• enableDebugClassNames is now false by default
• enableDevClassNames will once again be turned on when dev is true

Outside of that, the default values of all config options have been unified.

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Additionally, The unplugin package has been updated with better types and to default with treeshakingCompensation on for vite, rollup and rolldown.

These bundlers need this option to handle theme imports correctly.

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workflow: benchmarks/perf

Comparison of performance test results, measured in operations per second. Larger is better.

benchmarks@0.17.0 compare
node ./compare.js /tmp/tmp.pv7kVrQxzg /tmp/tmp.s6zIqEQ3cz

Results	Base	Patch	Ratio
babel-plugin: stylex.create
· basic create	545	534	0.98	-
· complex create	67	67	1.00
babel-plugin: stylex.createTheme
· basic themes	443	446	1.01	+
· complex themes	44	44	1.00

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workflow: benchmarks/size

Comparison of minified (terser) and compressed (brotli) size results, measured in bytes. Smaller is better.

benchmarks@0.17.0 compare
node ./compare.js /tmp/tmp.uwdws1cdq1 /tmp/tmp.uY3IppsjDc

Results	Base	Patch	Ratio
@stylexjs/stylex/lib/cjs/stylex.js
· compressed	1,311	1,311	1.00
· minified	4,150	4,150	1.00
@stylexjs/stylex/lib/cjs/inject.js
· compressed	1,223	1,223	1.00
· minified	3,216	3,216	1.00
benchmarks/size/.build/bundle.js
· compressed	496,650	496,650	1.00
· minified	4,847,840	4,847,840	1.00
benchmarks/size/.build/stylex.css
· compressed	99,853	99,853	1.00
· minified	747,541	747,541	1.00

[mellyeliu]

fix tests