This is honestly a very basic question regarding limits taken to infinity, but I'm curious about a rigorous explanation that doesn't rely upon notational tricks which obscure the operations. I think the easiest way to state the question is to consider,
$$\lim_{n\rightarrow\infty} \frac{1}{n} = 0$$
This limit clearly evaluates to 0 but it has been my unstructured understanding that, strictly speaking,
$$\lim_{n\rightarrow\infty} \frac{1}{n} \not\equiv 0$$
That is, the limit is not defined to be 0 but rather approaches zero; in that there exists no real number closer to zero than the evaluation of this limit. In the same sense that $\sup (a,b)=b$ despite $b\not\in(a,b)$. So, strictly speaking (though it may be an abuse of notation), it would be more correct to write:
$$\lim_{n\rightarrow\infty} \frac{1}{n} \equiv dn \approx 0$$
Where the limit is defined to evaluate to an infinitesimal in $n$, which, outside specific scenarios usually involving derivatives or infinite sums, may be approximated as zero without loss of generality (since carrying the infinitesimals won't change the analysis). In that sense, whether or not to estimate with $dn=0$ is somewhat an axiomatic preference or convention which depends upon the context of the problem.
Is this the correct way to view limits, or is there some manner by which the limit evaluates precisely to 0, without leaving a residual infinitesimal?
I have seen several explanations, but the internet is inconsistent and my old college calculus I textbook stuck with the high-level evaluation of limits without digging too much into infinitesimals.