The graph. We should've seen it coming. There's been a disconnect between the curators and the masses. Can adding the word "frequently" resolve this misunderstanding?
A computer science student finishes class and starts their homework. They are lost and have many questions. They Google and arrive at Stack Overflow. Most of their confusion is resolved and they're overjoyed. "Ask Question" stands out atop the page and they try clicking it for fun. Banner blindness sets in. After all, they have more questions, and "Ask Question"'s textareas seem like a blessing. After hitting Post, all hell breaks loose. "RTFM!", "Help-vampire!", "Add details about ### ### ###", "You can't ### ###" come the downvotes and comments. "###" is how jargon appears to them. All goes quiet when a "Closed as duplicate" door slams in their face. They retry and get question-banned. Frustrated, they rant on Reddit. Redditors comfort them with memes blaming Stack Overflow, and they never return.
"Why are people on Stack Overflow so rude and hostile?" Well, I'll share my experience. I briefly had a few downvoted throwaway accounts in middle school. The key is SO's UI is too deceptively simple, but social interactions set traps everywhere. Newbies think a "question" is something they can pester their TAs with on Brightspace/Piazza en masse, and mistake "answer" for a forum/Discord reply. "Q&A" means something different to professionals than laypeople, but everyone's on the same page with "FAQ".
It took months lurking to fear touching high school/undergraduate-level questions. I returned and stuck to answering highly-upvoted unanswered questions and after ~200 rep, expanded to long-tail/advanced. These two curator-loved areas will never die and like a wiki, tolerate days/months inactive, not hours. Speaking of wikis, main Stack Overflow's reality feels more like Wikipedia than like Quora, whose role is filled by the open-ended question feature.
The solution could be very simple. Replace "Question" with "FAQ" to not mislead newbies. Change "Ask question" to "Create new FAQ". The word "frequently" lets people know this site is about canonical questions generalizable to other people. The italicized word "new" invites them to search for duplicates.
Alternatives to "FAQ" are "topic", "knowledge base", or "category". Yes, the help center's FAQ'd need renaming. "Answer" could also become "solution".
Do you think replacing "question" with "FAQ" will make a difference?