I have no problem understanding the single variable derivative:
$$f'(x) = \lim_{h\to 0}\frac{f(x+h)-f(x)}{h}$$
As this is merely a case of:
$$\text{rate of change} = \frac{\Delta y}{\Delta x}$$
Where $\Delta x$ masquerades as $h$ and becomes vanishingly small. The above formula is the only reason I understand why there's an $h$ in the denominator. Technically, $h$ tending to zero should make $f'(x)$ tend to infinity in my mind, which is a bit of shakiness in my head that I've never worked out but I can understand it still from the previous few sentences.
However, when then learning of the limit definition of a partial derivative, I lose the rate of change equation to justify the $h$ on the denominator.
$$\frac{\partial f}{\partial x} = \lim_{h\to 0}\frac{f(\mathbf x+h)-f(\mathbf x)}{h}$$
I'm perfectly fine with the numerator, but I now can no longer justify the $h$ in the denominator. It would make more sense to me if it was merely $$\frac{\partial f}{\partial x} = \lim_{h\to 0}h(f(\mathbf x+h)-f(\mathbf x))$$, or $$\frac{\partial f}{\partial x} = \lim_{h\to \infty}\frac{f(\mathbf x+h)-f(\mathbf x)}{h}$$.