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Assembling a general-purpose family medical history
In the US, when seeing a new doctor for the first time, one is asked to fill out medical information forms that usually include questions about family medical history. Unfortunately, I barely know my family's medical history, so I'm planning on asking someone who does know and writing everything down. However, I don't have any medical forms in front of me right now, and I can't recall what questions are generally asked about my family medical history.
Hence: What data about family medical history is most commonly/generally requested by doctor intake forms? Specifically:
Which medical and/or psychiatric diagnoses are typically asked about?
How distant should the relatives be? I know the last form like this I filled out specified it wanted my grandparents and anyone descended from them. Is that a common requirement?
I'd like to be able to show this document to medical staff, so it can't just list my relatives' names, as they don't know who those people are. Would just listing relations like "uncle" and "grandmother" be enough? Should I specify whether each relative is on my mother's side or my father's side? Should I specify cousins' sex/gender?
Besides just diagnoses, is there any other aspect of family medical history I should generally know?