The scenario that I'm contemplating is one in which there is a first "depleted satellite" that has run out of propellant and a second "rescue satellite" that is designed to rescue the depleted satellite.
The rescue satellite is equipped with:
- An ion thruster,
- Reaction wheels for adjusting its orientation,
- At least one grappling gun that can shoot a magnet on a string.
The rescue satellite would maneuver close to the depleted satellite and then use its grappling gun(s) to shoot at least one magnet on a string at the depleted satellite. (We'll assume here that the depleted satellite has enough ferromagnetic material in its hull plating for magnets to stick.)
Let's assume that the satellites are in a 550 km LEO orbit and the effective range of the grappling gun(s) is 10 m.
Would the tidal forces acting on the coupled pair of satellites stabilize them enough to permit the rescue satellite to maintain the depleted satellite's orbit by thrusting with its ion drive? Or, would any attempt to use the ion drive for this purpose just cause the pair to start spinning out of control?
Note: related to connecting two satellites.

