I've read several previous questions on this topic such as here and here with useful answers from Olin and Andy, respectively.
I am currently modernizing a design that used 2x 47 pF capacitors on a crystal with 18-22 pF nominal load capacitance. So accounting for various other contributions to the load capacitance according to the links above, the actually implemented load capacitance was probably above 30 pF, so far above nomimal. The product worked fine with no clock issues reported. MCU (Atmega) datasheet contains some info in sections 9.3, 9.4 and recommends a max. value of 22 pF for each of the two capacitors.
In Andy's answer linked above, it also appears that higher loading capacitance makes the oscillation more resilient, albeit at the expense of frequency accuracy. Is this really the case? Are there drawbacks (other than frequency inaccuracy) to placing capacitance substantially exceeding the nominal value, e.g. using 2x 100 pF for an effective load capacitance of around 60 pF?
I've tried simulating this with Qspice's native crystal element, but I cannot make complete sense of the results, which are reported below. The green curves are for 2x 100 pF. It appears to me that the phase curves indeed more clearly clip the -90° line, but I am not sure if more resilient oscillation is the correct interpretation.