Context: I'm Brazilian, recently I moved to a small town in France for my PhD. Both my undergrad and Master's were done in the same university in Brazil, a really enormous city called Sao Paulo. I moved from a University with 98k students in total to a small city with a population of 120k in its urban area. I'm enjoying the change. Really. Learning a new language, meeting new people, adapting to a different culture and way of living etc. Nothing to complain except maybe one thing, which is this topic's subject.
How formal is a PhD in Europe, particularly in France, when it comes to attending the office? I mean, I know how important it is to go to the office, to exchange with people, with your colleagues, other PhDs, professors etc but I don't like the routine, that is, everyday going to the office and spending 7 hours in there sitting at my desk. In my university in Sao Paulo, Brazil, I could go to the cafeteria and have a coffee, or work in plein air in there, talk to my friends, or go to the library (I never went to the university's library here in my campus in France) when I wanted to work from there. Maybe I can also do this here but all my colleagues are in their office everyday all day and I don't want to be the "brazilian guy who only shows up when he feels like to". Ok, in Brazil I did a Master which is less formal than a PhD, but sometimes I want to change the routine and the environment. I not even talking about home-office, but "outside-office", "garden-office", "library-office", "coffee-office", "pub-office"......
There is nothing in my PhD contract that says that I HAVE to be 35h/week in the office but the spirit between my colleagues is that this is the case. I don't know if it is a French thing. I work with theoretical Physics and I use a lot of my computer to do simulations, and sometimes I work with just pen and paper. These moments, those "pen and paper moments" I feel like "oh, I could go to the city center, sit in my favorite café after lunch and work 3-4 hours in there, reading the papers and trying to work in these calculations, it is a beautifull day today you know...." but what I really do is just be in my office.
The system around me might not immediately validate that ("I have work to do and I'd think better in a café today").
I am doing this PhD for 3 months. We are a small institute in a small town and I think we are in a total of 10 PhD students in our building plus some more in another one forming the whole Physics group - but I never met everyone. I am organizing a regular journal clubs and group meetings to try to be closer to my colleagues' work (they exchange just a little and we don't have journal clubs =//, I mean the professors do with their students but the students itself don't organize anything in their own).
So my question is: I want to understand your experience in a PhD in Europe, particularly in France, and how was the formality about office attendance, hours per week etc, not just that but what is your ideas of a PhD life? I want to romanticize the student life kk I mean, should PhD students be more... daring? you know, this Tolkenian-Oxfordian thing of crossing the street and entering a Pub to drink some IPA while discussing theories and reciting poetry........ I want to go to a pub with other phds and spilling beer on my notes while formulating intriguing questions about physical theories...
Of course we can do group meetings in bars or cafés outside working hours but I want to be bale to break the routine of everyone sitting back-to-back in the office minding only their own business. Am I fantasizing?